@Giselle: I'm sorry you're having friend troubles. I'm guessing you're still in high school, and stuff like that goes on a lot sadly. Friends moving on from one another, acting distant, etc. There are many teenagers who like to be in the "in crowd" and want to be popular. Peer pressure and hormones make many teenagers minds all fuzzy. XD Although, I think there are people like that too in adult life of course. I don't know, some people just value popularity over friendship. It's sheer immaturity. I would much rather have a few close friends than a bunch of fakey strangers who pretend to be my friends.
Of course everyone wants to be adored and feel loved by others, but being known to a lot of people isn't going to cause that. Having REAL friends who genuinely care about you and vice versa is what makes you feel loved and adored. Popularity/status won't get you too far in life, at least not a very happy life. Friendship will though.
Your friend just sounds confused Giselle and not too sure what he/she wants. They may bounce back and they may not, who knows. But they aren't worth the effort and I say just move on. Perhaps someday they will realize their mistake of giving up on such a beautiful friend like you. *hugs* I hope you're doing okay my dear friend. I know you have many other friends who care about you, and I'm one of them of course! So, don't let this friend drama bother you. ^_^ It will all be okay.
@Yatch-chan: I'm glad you shared your thoughts and feelings with us Yatch. I know venting always helps me feel better, so I hope you always know that your Shuu friends are here to listen and support you. ^^
It sounds like your boyfriend, excuse my language, is quite an ass. I know I don't know him at all, but he certainly sounds immature.
I'm not sure how long you two have been together, but I'm sorry you're facing this right now. It's always hard for me to believe when someone says something like "I still love you and want to be with you" and truly mean it. I guess I'm a bit cynical when it comes to that. I know that's not always the case though of course, but it's just hard for me to believe a young man would say something like that and mean it truthfully. I don't know. Young men/women are still trying to figure out what they want to do in life (myself included), so I don't think they're mentally ready to have a relationship. That's why I want to finish school and figure out who I am before I even consider a serious relationship.
Anyway, I don't consider him an ass for why he broke up with you or saying stuff like that, the reason he's an ass is because he started dating another girl right away. So he's a needy lair or simply had a mental breakdown...or both. I don't even know how to respond to something like that. All I have to say is mean things, so I'm not going to say anything. All I can say is that this relationship he has with this girl will not last I'm sure and he will probably be apologetic to you and asking for you back before too long. I don't think you would go back to him though, which I sincerely hope you don't to put it bluntly. You're too good for him Yatch. You're very kind and smart, and you deserve someone better than this jerk. He's not worth it. My Mom has always said to me that most men aren't worth the trouble. XD Lol. There are many good and kind men out there though, of course.
I know this has hurt you and has caused you stress, but just know that there are other fish in this big sea and that you will meet someone someday who treats you good. I know you will. I would say enjoy your time being single right now and just take a day at a time. You're still very young. I believe you're taking this whole situation positively and strongly though, so you continue to stay your strong self. ^_^ *hugs* I wish you the best dear~
On this endless night, I only have one wish...
"For a shining light in a starless sky."