How is Your Day Going? Wrath of the Smecchi's

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Re: How is Your Day Going? Wrath of the Smecchi's

Post by Aizawa » Sun Apr 01, 2012 10:14 pm

I'll keep you in my prayers Yuna. My wife is officially at home and we are having a romantic get a way and taking a trip to Gettysburg. She's to scared to do the ghost tours. Mehehehe. We leave tomorrow. She's big. Having twins takes a lot outta you I guess because she sleeps a lot. I'm back at work.
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Post by RockRabbit » Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:11 am

Tensa has serious issues.
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Post by Aizawa » Thu Apr 05, 2012 10:55 am

Trip was cancelled. My wife..you know, I am asking for sympathy. Yes I am.

It started the other night. She screamed my name. She got her "period". She was crying and moaning and holding her stomach and I knew right away. Yes I did. I grabbed her and stomped on the gas petal. I'm taking a breather. I'm hurt. I hate myself for not watching the signs.

She lost the girl baby.
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Re: How is Your Day Going? Wrath of the Smecchi's

Post by Deoxys » Thu Apr 05, 2012 10:58 am

owwwww that's bad... Wasn't she pregnant with twins?

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Re: How is Your Day Going? Wrath of the Smecchi's

Post by Aizawa » Thu Apr 05, 2012 11:01 am

Yes. The other one is okay. I hope. We pretty much feel like **** excuse my French. She's asleep and won't let me hold her. Everything was going so good. Guess all that's left is to stay strong for the other one. I'm going to cuddle her in a minute rather she likes it or not. I'm a sad excuse of a father and a horrible husband.
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Post by RockRabbit » Thu Apr 05, 2012 1:19 pm

...I'm so sorry, Aizawa...
and don't blame yourself, there's nothing you could have done to prevent this. it's nobody's fault. sadly, things like these happen.
i hope your wifey's okay ; _ ;
i send you three all my prayers, and my love and support
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Post by Crimson_Camelia » Thu Apr 05, 2012 2:20 pm

If you are "sad excuse of a father and a horrible husband", then I would like my future husband to be this kind of sad excuse as well.
I can judge you only by things you wrote, and this is enough for me to admire your love to your wife and support you are giving to her.

I am truly sorry for your loss. I will pray for your baby girl's soul's peace.
I can guess that your wife is blaming herself even more than you, because of this. This is nobody's fault, though. It is hard to deal with it, but things like that happen to people :(

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Post by Hopeful_Encounter » Thu Apr 05, 2012 5:01 pm

Oh Aizawa, I'm so sorry. There are no words that I can possibly express how sorry I am. I have tears in my eyes right now. I know how excited you and your wife were to have twins and just, oh my god, I'm sorry. I hope and pray with all my heart that the other baby is okay.

You're not a horrible husband or father, you're in fact a very loving and kind man. Like Camelia said, I would want my future husband to be like you as well. You're very supporting. I know your wife appreciates you. It's certainly not her fault either of what has happened. I know it will be a hard time right now, but just be there for one another. You still have your other child on the way, so you must still try your best to stay strong and positive. We're all thinking of you. I shall say a prayer for you and your wife. Again, please stay strong. Take care.
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Post by demon_turtle1028 » Thu Apr 05, 2012 5:16 pm

Man, that sucks. I remember how happy you were. Its no one's fault! Bad things happen and we have to move on. My eyes are tearing up as I'm typing this. You aren't a horrible father, or husband, so don't even think that! There's nothing you could've done to prevent it. That's how life works.

So, please don't blame yourself and your wife doesn't need to blame herself, either. Stay strong and just think of all the happy moments that you've had with your wife. You both will be able to pull through. I believe in you.
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Post by demon_turtle1028 » Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:05 pm

I'm depressed. My dog had puppies and they're all healthy, but one. We call her Annie. Annie hasen't been eating, though she has been drinking water. I went to rub her belly the other day and all I could feel were her bones. She's so skinny and sickly looking. I think she might die because its been a while since she actually had anything to eat. When she eats, she pukes and its green. I don't get that. I just want Annie to get better, but I don't think that's going to happen. :(
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Post by Yatchen » Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:18 pm

So many unfortunate things in this thread. :(
I hope the best for your second child, Aizawa. I understand that this must be very difficult for you both, but know that this is not your fault. You have, I am sure, done everything possible to keep your children safe.
And I am sorry for you too, demon_turtle. It always upsets me to see my dog sick as well. I hope she will be okay.

As for myself...well, I don't have anything positive to add, lol. I feel very stressed and am in a very trying time in my life, emotionally. I can't figure out if I regret the decisions I have made in my life up to this point or not. D:
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Post by Aizawa » Fri Apr 06, 2012 7:42 pm

The other baby is fine. Healthy and kicking. My wife is right next to me and she enjoys the comments and support. It's nice that total strangers take the time to grieve with us for a moment. Thankyou. We really appreciate it. Of course the loss is tragic. I mentioned before she had issues carrying babies. But this baby is going to be alright. Baby Mason. Mason Cross Manson will be delivered in August. Or July since he's due the first of August and they normally come earlier. Well, I'm sorry for you Yatchen. I hope you can work out those issues. Just don't stress to much about it.
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Post by demon_turtle1028 » Fri Apr 06, 2012 7:50 pm

I'm happy that we're able to help some how, Aizawa.

Can Yatchen talk about these things to anyone, like close friends, or family? It might help and maybe the stress will be over soon. Is it about exams, or something college related? If it is, then it will disappear, soon and if its not...then maybe talk about it to someone.
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Post by Yatchen » Fri Apr 06, 2012 8:11 pm

Naw, it's more about my LDR, lol. I'm getting older and not sure if waiting throughout my entire college life is a good idea. Also this job market sucks, and it's becoming a little bit daunting.
But ah well.
I have people I can talk to, but nothing seems to be making me feel much better, haha.
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Re: How is Your Day Going? Wrath of the Smecchi's

Post by demon_turtle1028 » Sat Apr 07, 2012 11:05 am

The job market does suck and don't feel bad, I'm older than you -_-. What is Yatchen planning to do after college?
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