How is Your Day Going? Wrath of the Smecchi's

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Aizawa wrote:You have a very brilliant way with words and I love the flow of your writing. Keep at it, you are very gifted in the writing department. There was a lot of emotion in this. I really love the symbolism of the garden. I'm so happy you shared this with us. I'm so sorry for the hardships you had to encounter, but I sincerely hope things continue to get better.
Thanks! I write a lot so perhaps I will share some of my more novel work ( pun intended ) later.

Took me some time to reply as I have been on holiday this month, travelling through France. A much needed break from work =w=
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Acutally it is a normal day in collage.^^
I went home and made Chocolate Cake, but some little creatures in home ate it all.
And now just a daily practice on drawing. ^^
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well, not that anyone was asking, but being so absent from shuu kind of drives a part of me to explain why I am kinda "gone" at the moment :lol:

I changed my work about six weeks ago and I am still a bit stressed over it.
It's a nice job tho, and I think being a part of shuu really helped me with this job, since I am currently working for an outsourcing company and our client is Ebay. My job is to check if the brands put on the articles of trade are the real deal or not. It requires a lot of google and special search engines and it reminds me so much of tracking down artists with hard to find websites :lol:
I even have a bunch of friends there and they really help me coping with my "change stress" (because I always freak out when something in my life changes)

In general, life is currently good with me. There are some things that happen in my housemates' lives that indirectly affect me, mainly because of empathy, but all in all things are going well for me.
And with all that.. Somehow I realized last Friday that I am depressed. I don't know if it's the weather or the job, but I cried for two hours and I feel very melancholic the entire time, since I switched jobs. Maybe it's the fact that altho I have more time now, my job is really far away and I can't go spend as much time with my significant other as I used to. Maybe it's the whole getting up early thing... but it stresses me even more to know that things are well and yet here I am, crying that my life is in order. :/
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Aw so sorry to hear that you're depressed Rabbit-chii. I know depression is not a joke and anxiety can change your life for the worse. I'm struggling with it now as well. I think talking about it is the best therapy though. Everyone has a different way of coping. I like to isolate myself and eat junk food for example. You just need to find an outlet that is healthy for you. Exercising and yoga helps me out. Do stuff that makes you happy and feel better about yourself. Never be afraid to show how you're feeling; it's worse to bottle it up. I hope you feel better now it's been about a month since you wrote that; I hope I helped you.

I have a little update too. It feels like I always come here just to tell you guys bad news. I don't want to alarm anyone but I had a little health scare again. We aren't sure what's wrong, but we are trying to find the source of pain in my stomach. First, we are changing my diet and if the pain is still there, I need some more tests. I'll keep you guys updated. :D
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Thank you, yuna (:
I really hope your problem is nothing serious :/ Keeping my fingers crossed and I will wait to hear from you <3



p.s. about the depression thing, if you're still struggling with it too, I heard that Saint John's wort does well against depression :) I'll be trying out tea with it pretty soon, hopefully it will calm things down; you can try it too if you still suffer from it ;v;
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Aw thank you for the advice Rabbit-tsu! My depression is flaring up because I got hurt at work, and I'm on meds right now for a neck sprain that happened last week. I go to the doctor again next week so I'm praying nothing is seriously wrong. :(
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Hey guys! Yuna i hope there's nothing serious about your neck, and hope you get better ASAP.
Lately i passed my pre-medic year with a very good percent, i am happy for that. :)
i got a friend, a girl, ,she is from another city,she was a new friend, but she came here to study medicine.
She was really nice to me, we were very close, we studied together and did a lot of things together, but one day, she left me and never talked to me again, i really didn't know what i have done to her, Actually i didn't nothing, i asked her why? She said that she wanted to finish the year with her old friends, i said we missed her-me and some friends too-and then she said she will back, but she didn't, and we finished the year without her.
I really don't know what to do, next year she will be in the same college with me. And if she came back to me, i don't know if i would welcome her again or not? she was a good a friend but after that, i really don't if i should forgive her!
So what do you think guys, i really don't know what to do?!
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Hmm, maybe you could give her another chance? If she was a very good friend to you and you liked her, why not? If she does it again then it's clear what's going on.
(But honestly, if it happened to me, I would never talk to her again xD That's how unforgiving I am)
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Spent today's afternoon with sister at cinema watching 'Street cat named Bob'. Both of us enjoyed the movie. After that we went to cat cafe (less than 5 of those nationwide). We drank coffee, sampled salty and sweet tart and foremost enjoyed cafe's furry residents. We wanted to stay longer, but sister had prior arrangements so we had to make early leave.
As extra we had native Japanese (based on way she was addressed to, a teacher) next to us chatting with her students with mixed japanese and english on various subjects (sake, cats, anime/manga etc.).

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Wow. That's really awesome and it sounds like fun. I've always wanted to go to a cat cafe. Thanks for sharing.
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idk why I'm sharing this with all of you but today aizawa and me got tattoos. he has many, and has many removed so ofc he takes his like a champ and he's laughing and talking to the guy and they're cracking jokes while his inner wrists are getting tattooed so I was like wait that's the more painful place to get them so I'll be fine. so I was like if he can do this I'll be fine haha. he takes it like a real champ and in forty minutes he's done.

its my turn and I had this cute tiny one of bird silhouettes flying on my arm planned out so the guy puts the image on my arm to get started and I get nervous meanwhile aizawa is there like you got this. his wrist is raw and bleeding and he was applying a spray for the burn and I'm starting to rethink it then the needle starts. omgggggggggg I screamed and cried and the guy had to stop soooo many times lol. it took over an hour for a tattoo that was supposed to be done in fifteen minutes. ^^ *sweats*

but I did it and it looks cute. Would I do it again? no.
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Y'all stop what you are doing and look at my new dog. LOOK AT HER
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Her name is Sasha. X]
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OMG! You got a dog. :) :D
What a nice dog!. She looks great, i like her. 8)

Get ready Aizawa to clean after her. XD
Take care of her. <33

I want a dog, RIGHT NOW. :'(
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This was something I was hesitant to post publicly, but I've been thinking a lot about how under appreciated a love between two friends can be when on the subject. I've been reflecting a lot lately about many things, some of it being my time here. I know this sounds like the typical 'hurdur friend zone' thing, but in my honest opinion the friend zone thing shouldn't be an actual thing in the first place, because no one is entitled to anyone and it's made to put pressure on someone else who doesn't return those feelings. But that's a huge rant I won't go into.

I think this site has had a positive impact on me and my life for the most part because this place gave me my best friend. Granted; I have friends offline and even a lover to call my own, but this friend and I have something special that distance can't really define. She's someone I want in my life forever. Sorry if this comes off as a typical, over the top dedication since there are times I can be rather over emotional, and I can most definitely be rather opinionated, but that's just what I am. You either get 100% or nothing at all. I'm willing to give if you're willing to receive. This post is my reflection on our friendship, on the biggest impact this place has given me. I have a habit of pushing people I actually want to befriend away as a natural reflex, but she was someone I was so intrigued in that I couldn't do that to her. It scared me and excited me at the same time, and even if I met her over a light novel translation, she became one of the most important people in my life. I have a big heart and a big mind, but I'm willing to throw everything out the window for her. I'm willing to chase stars and burn at a stake for her. I love her.

We would stay up writing these huge, detailed essays to each other catching up on life and talking about the smallest things and the biggest. When we wanted to share laughter, we shared it. When we needed a shoulder to cry on, we knew the other would have their back. I recently went through something rather controversial and personal, and while she didn't agree with the subject matter, she was there to offer me support through and through. Which comes as no surprise, because she was always supportive of me and was there for me regardless. We had movie nights where we would Skype and watch movies live together, then discuss them. It was fun, swell even, and it meant a lot to me that someone wanted to spend so much time with me. She's been my best friend for so many years because she's the most loyal person you can find. She's stuck around many people through many things, and will always be the first to ask how their day was. When I met her, I was going through a horrible time in life, and she made me feel better knowing I could make someone else smile.

She helped me through a lot in life and has taught me how to see things in new prospectives. Its been nearly six years, and she will always have me. I don't think the world will be ready for us when this duo collide, because the distance is the only thing stopping us from conquering it.

It's just so surreal seeing how I was compared to now in my time here. I definitely changed as a person. I'm just glad my bestie has stuck by my side through it all. That's all I'm getting at.
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That was a beautiful post Aizawa-san. That's all I can say :)

THAT CUTE DOG THO, I'M DYING-
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